FIL (who is very influential on W and they live together) said last week that he'd noticed my changes and said it seemed like a religious wakening. He suggested to me last week that W & I should do some counselling and to give it time. He could just be saying that and playing for time to hide more money.
Given that W is incredibly stubborn and wouldn't make the first move even if she wanted to do so, should I suggest it to W and say it was her father's idea?