you're still getting too caught up on everything she says. She sees you getting busy, doing your thing, and is only sniffing. Temp-checking like Steve said, so don't capitulate.
Keep on keeping on, let her go through her journey. Quit snooping. Keep improving. Good luck.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.