Husband cheated, left, trying DB 3

[SteveLW]

I do have a question. This will be the 2nd OW. Is that something the WS does? They don’t even necessarily stick with the first A, they can move on to another? Him and the 1st OW had a relationship, I could tell by the things I found. He would end it with her over and over when he became unsure and tried to make it work with me, and then he’d fall out with me and text her, etc. Now it seems he’s moved to another woman. Another bartender, same M.O. and he’s just denying it. But he’s SO ANGRY WITH ME. As if I’ve done something wrong and I haven’t.

Yes, waywards will jump from OP to OP. When my wife's first EA ended, she immediately went on the prowl for another one. This is why we tell posters it isn't about the OP!! The AP is immaterial. And confronting them, contacting their LBS, etc does nothing to help your sitch.

Please read what LITB copied. As I told you the other day, your problem is that you are trying to think and deal with him as if he was the man you married. He isn't. And may never be ever again.