Merrick, are we continuing to DB? (I mean "we" genuinely, as I'm in a similar sitch)
Are we still looking for what doesn't work, and applying 180 actions? Are we trying anything different? *(Those are the only two that come to mind . I left my notebook and DR book at home) Maybe a little obvious I've got some DB work to do.
My point is, DBing isn't a program you graduate from, it's a process you apply over and over, and eventually your S gets caught up in the process and you both begin to care about each other.
But before you can care about someone else, you have to be able to care for yourself. Basic principle of Seven Habits - Independence comes before Interdependence.
Granted, keeping on serious DBing is hard, depressing work when we really need some positive support from our Ws, but instead we get the opposite.
You've found the answer - a personal relationship with God, through Jesus Christ his son. There is no limit to His wellspring of support and love, just our self imposed limits and beliefs.
Keep on takin' one day at a time, Matthew 6:34 "So don't worry about tomorrow, for tomorrow will bring its own worries. Today's trouble is enough for today."
. I left my notebook and DR book at home) 
Maybe a little obvious I've got some DB work to do. 
