Thanks DnJ. Will hold off. Since I am planning to move forward, I just learned that I cannot even get approved for a loan for another place to live because my wife filed. My attorney says I have to get permission from wife for now. Any thoughts on how this is pereceived? By writing and asking for her to be ok with me getting a loan for a long term living solution, this conveys a “I am moving on” message and could push her onto filing or make her know I am really moving on. Should I write and ask if reconciliation is what I want in the end, but need to plan for the worst? Thanks.
