I also suggest to give your W the DR to read, since she bought you "Happy Divorce". Told her to read with open mind.
I try many times to ask my W to read DR. But she refused. Nothing I can do about it. Today we will have a talk. She will tell me her decision whether to stay and work on our M or to move out. My worry is if she wants to stay but continue the current situation. Soon or later I will give up.