I am praying that God will heal us both, we have been through a very traumatic year, i think we will take awhile to adjust to being premature emptynesters and to finding ourselves again if you will. I am in no way delusional that this is all about my H. I know the part that I played in it. I am praying for his mental health as i think he is having a lot of defeats at his job and his family is unhinged and his dad who is his support is declining in mental capacity.
