The distance b/t W and I is very distant and it seems her actions have been very calculated. Since BD I have never thought there could be OM involved, but in reading some other people’s sitch, I see a lot of similarities in how W became distant so quick.
I do believe the death of her Mom propelled her into this action on D and extreme MLC. But I keep getting an inkling that this guy from her past came to he M’s remembrance ceremony out of the blue could be at least an EA. I blocked W on social media a month ago for my own sanity.
I have to see W tomorrow for 1st time in a month for S doctors appointment and am all of a sudden caught up in how I will react around her. Last time I brought up S’s emotional state since leaving and said it had a direct impact since BD. W immediately got pissed and dismissed motion saying I was grasping to justify us to work on MR.
If I could only get her to get out of the clouds to see the damage that has been done..
Me - 38 W-37 S6 M 10 years T 13yrs BD 3/18 W moves out 4/18 W files 7/18
