Finally the registration is out of my name.. it appears she has already transferred it a long time ago. I was a dumb guy just to have not been aware of it. Such is my plight to have trusted her so much all the time we stayed together while she had 0 trust in me the entire 6 yrs. I dispatched all her marital assets to her home and i think they promptly received it as well. Anything related to money they are alert. Few days ago was her b'day. I did not bother to wish her.
Last edited by Nutcrac; 08/18/1803:02 PM.
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
how is it going everyone. Been a while. I haven't been following up here as well.
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
Nothing new. Thanks for asking. I am just taking my life easy. going on dates. Meeting new people. Just keeping busy and minding my business
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
Nutcrac, you sound like you are doing great! Very happy for you. I know you had a rough go of it there for a while, but seeing you happy and healthy is so inspirational. Many of our newbies could learn from you that D is not the end of your life, and that they will be fine no matter what!
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
Steve85- Thank you very much! Ya it was a rough ride. And sometimes i still remember old good memories. But moving forward is the way to go and I am doing the same now.
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
Ex again messaged me saying she owes me money and wants to return it. This is the millionth time she is coming back despite repeatedly telling her that we have no financial dues. Blocking wont help as she can respond from a different email. Why is she reaching out to me this way despite repeatedly mentioning that I don't need the money. How to handle This? Any thoughts?
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
"I understand you feel that you owe me money. However, I do not want or need any money from you. As far as I am concerned we are all square and neither of us owes the other one anything. This is the last time I will address this issue. Thanks, Nutcrac"
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
I thought it over and I know if i do not respond this will keep coming back to me every once a while. I wanted this matter closed with email evidence.
So I sent a response saying that I am not interested to take anything from her and it was money spent for us and not her or me. Asked her to be content and peaceful. And i will have her in my prayers and wish her the best no matter what. Take care.
After a while late night, she responded saying that i took care of all expenses for us with my salary and she had saved hers for our future. So i need to receive what is mine. And that she would be thankful if i take it back and put it to whatever good use I need to.
Just a while ago I woke up, sent a reply thanking for the offer and responded saying that I respectfully decline. The matter is closed and I am glad she has found her peace.
Now she responded back saying Why I decline all the time and this matter will never be closed till I take the money.
I responded saying i won't reply to her going forward unless its a geniune post divorce need.
I think i just have to simply ignore any emails going forward.
Last edited by Nutcrac; 09/13/1812:23 PM.
M(35) F(35) T(6) M(6) BD 10/25/2017 S 3/12/2018 LRT 4/3 D Served 4/30 D Signed (Me) 5/1 D filed with Court 5/21 D Final 7/6 Moving on with life and doing lot of GAL since 7/6 :-)
