I've been pretty busy with not much time on the BB, but I wanted to pop in and tell you how much you stickin it out means to me. There for a while it was sounding like you were ready to throw in the towel. Staying in your home where you belong and being the best man you can be - with God's help - can not be the wrong thing to do. Our Ws don't appreciate it, and even resent that we are suddenly all they could ever want. Just cause they have trouble dealing with our desire to forgive and forge a better R and M doesn't mean we cash in and do what they did - go somewhere else to find what we want. You've proven you can get it (despite some of our recommendations on the BB ). Your determination to keep your place in your family and in your home is encouraging.