Merrick once again you amaze me with your determination. I mean it buddy. You are the man. Divine intervention my a$$, If this marriage gets saved its because sooner or later she is going to pull her head out of this hole she has it stuck in and realize what a great guy she already has. Ok so maybe it will take some devine intervention to pull it out... Really though, you have fought the good fight and although you havnt won yet, you are doing all you can and Im really amazed at your inner strength and will power. In the words of Joe Dirt...Keep on keepin on...God Bless and hope you had a wonderful Fathers day...eddy