Hey Folks-

Thanks for checkin' in and the well wishes. I've been trying to stay off the BB and clear my head, but wanted to check on our NY get together. Relations between W and me are sub-Arctic--but I'm not interested in an R with her right nowand am just trying my best not to dislike her.

I pretty much told W I'm not going anywhere. If she wants to file, that's her business, but to succeed she would have to paint me as a bastard and I would need to defend myself. I try my best to avoid her at home -- and stay away from home once the kids are asleep.

I'm just focussing on the kids and building an R with Christ through my RCIA--which is the most significant thing keeping my heart warm and forgiving. I truly believe that id this M survies, it will only come through divine intervention that enters and guides both of our hearts. My heart and mind is open.

Be good everyone and please accept my apologies if I have not stopped by your thread.


Keep on fighting the good fight.

Merrick