Steve you are right. He was with OW while I was being nice. Very true. LITB I think you’re prob right about embracing the D, but that seems so hard to do. I don’t want to enable his behavior though, it’s absolutely not ok that he’s g someone else. It’s disgusting.
Ok so he came in to the house just now, I walked away and he sat down with the baby. When I walked back out to get ready to leave he said “so do you not want me doing things around the house for you anymore?”
He obviously noticed I mowed the lawn. And he started a carport in March he never finished he promised to build me a shed, none of which he has shown any interest in doing until the last time I kicked him out in June and then again this time.
So my response was nicely said “well you don’t have to” and to this he scoffed and said “if you don’t then I’m going to get rid of all this stuff” and pointed to all the materials he’s had sitting on the side of our house for 6 months now. And all I said was “ok”. Then he said ok and I continued getting ready to leave. Then he told me he would be available both nights this weekend to watch her and that he only works Saturday. He again seems extremely annoyed with me, angry, same as yesterday and I figured as much due to the way he was this morning.
I really hope you guys don’t say I handled that wrong. He knows I’d love for him to do things around the house! But he always says it and never does it. He started the carport on March 6th, I know that because it was my birthday. It’s half way done, the materials have laid in the driveway, and he only brings it up when I tell him he has to stop living at home. I’m not trying to be mean as if I don’t need him, but all I did was mow the lawn, that was literally SO high and he reacts this way. I don’t know why I feel like the bad guy. But he def paints me that way.
He just texted me “so that we are on the same page, you don’t want my help around anymore?”
Help with response someone
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