You are receiving some hall of fame advice from Steve and R2C. Listen to them, because I made the mistake of trying to "nice" my W back. It didn't work. I was enabling her behavior and I was part of the problem that prolonged my sitch.
So what if he is angry? I'm sure you have heard the saying, misery loves company. Don't be his company on his miserable crazy train.
Honestly, it probably sounds radical to you, but embracing the possibility of D, might be exactly what shakes things up. Keep doing what is being suggested to you, and at some point you will think to yourself, "You know what? Life is pretty damn good no matter what happens."
Me:45 ExW:48 M:04/97 3 Bombs & 2 ReCons 1st BD 11/10 D Finalized 4/20 D-16 S-14 Going in one more round when you don't think you can. That's what makes all the difference in life.~Rocky Balboa