been hanging out in this forum for a while. finally got the will to post my own stitch. been married for 16 years. been together for 22. dog died this year and that's when the spouse started to become a WW. April this year i caught them both on my bed but according to her, nothing happened so i believed and forgave her. july came and that's when i got the ILYBINILWY spill. so now she's has forgotten everything, me, the house, our two dogs that are still alive and most importantly our daughter. the reason she gave why she became a WW, is because i wasn't there to mourn with her when the dog died March of this year.Me and my daughter were there with her when they put him to sleep. But that night I had to work. That's how I cope with losing a loved one. I keep busy. But for now she's still mourning the loss of our lovely dog, she's still holding on to his ashes and according to her she's still in mourning. But at the same time having an affair with a co-worker, because according to her, he listens to her, he makes her laugh. So for now I have gone dark. D13 turning D-14 this month knows all too well what is happening. W has asked her to lie for her whenever she hangs out with OM. Yet, WW still insists that I have exposed and destroyed D13's innocence by telling her about her A. Right now me and D13 are seeing different therapist. W comes to her sessions, but doesn't know that I see one myself. This is my stitch for now. Will try to expound more if there are q's. Very glad I found this place.
