The problem is you assume that what you are doing is making things worse and being nice would make things better. Yet he found OW while you were being nice. See what I mean? He will do what he will do no matter what. So don't bend over backwards. Polite, present, kind. but not "nice".
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
