What I would like is for H and I to decide the custody and not involve the court system. Which is how we have always said we would handle it if it got here. His work schedule is all over the place, it would make no sense for us to go through the court. If we could work together on it and be civil to one another, we could discuss a schedule at the beginning of each week based off his work schedule. She is still nursing right now and will be until she is 1. When he gets his own place, a crib, a carseat, etc, we could discuss a more permanent arrangement for the weeks maybe.
W:"H, making parenting arrangements at the last minutes, does not work for me. I would like us to layout a standard parenting plan that we can follow until you have your own place that has accommodations for D. Based off my understanding this is what I propose..........Does that work for you?"
H has to put on his "Big Boy Pants" and make his job work AROUND his parenting time.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
