Originally Posted by Steve85
Originally Posted by Ready2Change
Originally Posted by kech
Okay I will do that. I am going to contact a lawyer this week and set something up, although I am so upset by it. I didnt think we could do just a dissolution, when a child is in the picture, but I am not positive. I dont want him to bring it up again but obviously he is going to and we will discuss it next week. so upsetting, but I will do the best I can


List out your questions;

1) Is my state a fault of no fault state?
2) Is it equal equity?
3) Is it joint custody?
4) How does child support work?
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Remember kech, knowledge is power! When you get information like the above, then his threats will be without merit. When a lawyer tells you "Most of the time the spouse that leaves the home gets less custody" then when he is angry and threatens to fight for full custody, you can let it roll off your back because you know he has about as much hope of getting full custody as he does hitting the mega ball jackpot.



Thank you, you are right, that makes me feel a little better. The custody sitch is what will kill me more than ANYTHING. But im still here hoping for a positive outcome in M. But his anger is now clouding EVERYTHING so I dont know. I dont even know where the anger comes From! ANyone?