Wife is not who I married...Pls Help Pt5

[LoneWlf]

Unless D is what you want, in that case why not just facilitate it?

Thank you RR for your valued input.RR-You ask a pertinent question. At this point I'm not sure what I want. For sure I would not take back W in her current emotional, spiritual, mental and physical state. I feel she's got a lot of work to do here. I'm also seeing that W has been consistent in her words and actions to separate and D so it may definitely happen. I'm definitely not going to be doormat and stick around waiting for someone who has said that they want me out of their life. But there is a strong element forgiveness and commitment that weighs heavily on me. Wanting a TRUE family for my S is also part of the equation but not even sure if he even wants that now. I guess there are a lot of things to be addressed before even thinking about R. At this point my focus is on S and I and to be the best dad possible.