H: We need to sit down and fill out dissolution of marriage
What am I missing here? It makes no sense. And now he wants to fill out the divorce paperwork next week. What a start to the day.
Have you made any appointments with lawyer for free consultation? If not, THIS SHOULD BE YOUR NUMBER ONE PRIORITY.
Please do not ignore. One of the best steps I took in my sitch was to consult with an attorney. The look on her face, now remember she was the one pushing for D, when I said I had talked to a lawyer was priceless.
Imagine this in the near future:
WH: we should talk about the dissolution of the marriage kech: I understand you feel that is important, when would you like to discuss WH: As soon as possible! I want this over with kech: I can tell that you are anxious to get things moving? What do you suggest? My lawyer said "blah blah blah".
If this is in person, he'll look like you punched him in the gut. (He doesn't think you will take that step, so this would be a huge 180 for you and he will take note. Plus he doesn't expect you to do anything that shows acceptance of it.)
If it is over text you will get a long period of silence. Followed by some very angry texts. Just stay calm and remind him that he is the one pushing for "dissolution" (who even uses that term!?!?), and that you are just preparing yourself for the worst.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
