Merrick you know all to well Im going to have to agree with Raindeer on this one. Its a set up. It would give her an excuse to divorce then. Even though I am in a no fault state my w is using it for her own guilt that I dated someone. It in some ways set her free to move on she says. I heard it all, I really wish you would find someone else, You have to move on, your obsessed, Youll be happier without me, And so on goes the list...You know the rest of the story once I did date, how the jealousy set in... Take care and KOFTGF, God Bless, Eddy