L - Last week my XW Facetimed my daughters from her BF house. 1.5 years in and it still stings. I know it all really [censored] but you have to start to get out and do things for yourself. You need to start lifting weights, nothing feels better than walking out of the gym with an incredible pump. It is also a great way to channel your anger and it also increases your endorphins which really helps fight depression. This morning I struggled to get out of bed but the mental picture of my XW and the memories of what she did was all I needed to make it happen.

At some point in time you have to pick yourself up off the ground and start moving forward.

Hang in there.

Last edited by Cadet; 09/12/18 02:33 PM. Reason: Start a new thread message
Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018