kech, I would not have brought up how he is behaving. Let him sulk. I also wouldn't agree to change your dress for him.

Cheaters ALWAYS project. So many of the sitches here where the cheating WAS blames the LBS of seeing someone. And as I told you, they all lie an deny. Lying is easy for someone that is so morally bankrupt that the would sleep with someone else than their spouse who they are supposed to be committed to.

Remember......listen and validate. On texts, answer direct questions with as few words as possible. Yes or no get yes or no answers. Texts that are informational do not need a response.

He got what he wanted. He was being surly with you to invoke a response. You should not have given him the satisfaction.

No worries, just get back up on the DB horse. Oh, and next time you see him have your sexiest shorts possible on.




One other thing. Remember mysterious is your friend. As he gets more curious as to where you go and what you are doing the more he will try to be around. It is a first, very minor step towards potentially wanting to R. If he truly didn't care he wouldn't be accusing you of seeing someone, etc.

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