Unfortunately L, that about sums it up. There is nothing you can do, but let her go and focus on you and the kids. Your sitch is somewhat similar to mine, and i had to go through 5 days knowing W was on a cruise with OM that she lied to me about.

The sooner you can let her go the better for you. I didnt find this out until i had suffered for a long time, and didnt find this forum until my sitch was well over a year old.


Together:20 years
M:3 years
Me:40
WW:40
S15
A suspected:5/17
AC:5/18
BD:8/18
WW in full blown R w/ OM
Still under same roof