So, some new developments this morning and I am just as confused as ever.

I will write our text exchange below. I was doing okay and he pulled me in a bit, but im trying to have a mixture of sticking up for myself, while validating.

H:How is she sleeping
W: Up last night for a bit then good
H:ok
H: whats your plans this weekend with our daughter
W: Just plans Saturday during the day.
W:is there a reason you're all of a sudden being like this towards me?
H: ill take her off your hands during the night if thats ok
H: No reason to discuss it
W:Ok. That works Sat night
H: Any personal [censored] doesnt need to come between me seeing her so i'd rather just keep my problems to myself.
H: Like you said, we dont need to communicate for anything besides her
W: Agreed. Just hope we can be nice to one another while communicating about her
H: Im not being mean. I just dont have anything to say to you..Im upset thats all there is.
H: Have a good day and ill be by later to spend time with her
W: ok you too
H: Bye
H: I'd appreciate the stroller and car seat when you leave me alone with her
W: ok
H: We need to sit down and fill out dissolution of marriage
H: Maybe next week
W: ok
H: Alright
H: Keep your new shorts style to yourself please, that sh*t erks my nerves.
H: Just a reminder I dont f*cking need
H: At least until I dont have to be at your house when im seeing the baby
H: Do whatever you want out with your friends just not in front of me
W: Youre literally seeing someone else, please stop being like this towards me. I'll refrain from shorts around you. Have a good day.
H: Im not seeing anybody, and you obviously are too
H:8 years you never tried to look sexy for me, now???? It isnt for me, someones gotta be telling you too..F*CK THAT
W: Or maybe its I just had a baby 6 months ago and feel really good and confident about my body
H: Yea, like I said, 8 years and I never gave you confidence. Makes a man feel more insufficient.
W: Im sorry if thats how it makes you feel. I didnt think of it that way. I will really refrain from the shorts around you
H: Thanks

He is SO angry with me! BUT HE IS SEEING SOMEONE! What am I missing here? It makes no sense. And now he wants to fill out the divorce paperwork next week. What a start to the day.