My story pt 2

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Now stuck with a dliemma. W is off the charts nuts still and plan was to engage this weekend with PIs and hopefully file for D next week. Enter bad news and I think I know the moral thing to do. She finds out her sister who basically raised her and lives across the country has had some medical issues one being a malignant tumor in her head...still requires further tests but my W is beside herself upset. When she came home she told both kids but not me, my youngest came to my room to tell me and I did not approach her until the AM where I told her I heard and was sorry and could help her with anything she needed if she was considering traveling there. I feel like that was the right thing to do but I think my decision is still right to move forward legally when she did not even attempt to reach out to me. If she passes my W will probably end up institutionalized or permanently damaged someway.

If she goes away I am still moving forward with investigation but I just don't know what to do about filing for D right now...almost seems inhumane.