Is there hope? I have a WW

[LANE777]

So my WW has been on a trip with her friend...OM. I've got to be honest. I'm hurting pretty bad the last couple of days. We have a rental house that we lived in when we first got married. I lived there before we met. We kept it and rented it out all these years. I put it up for sale back in June. It hasn't sold and I've been making 2 mortgage payments on it. W texted and asked if she could stay there and make payment. I actually told her I was okay with it. It might be good for us in the long run.
So, I've been dwelling on this mess. Her staying in a hotel room with this guy. Its driving me crazy. It's like another nail in the coffin. I've been telling my self to be patient and stop thinking about it. I want so bad for that AF to crumble. I'm hoping in time the fog will lift...its not looking good right now. Its amazing a mom would go on a 5 day trip and leave her kids for that long...oh the mind of a WW.
I know that I'm working on detach. I dont reach out to her ever. I'm faking my way through this. However I really wish I could get to the point of not caring so much. I've been so busy with kids and work, while shes on vacation...ugh!!