I haven't posted in awhile, so I wanted to check in on you. It sounds as if W is trying to bully you. It will be harder for her to keep it up if you remain calm and cool. Remember how we used to talk about neutralizing the negativity with positive energy?
You are absolutely right about the kids staying in the house and you two alternating as being in their best interest. They need as much stability as possible during this time of turmoil. Unfortunately, the alien mind may not agree. Would she be open to reading materials on the subject or would this just precipitate a another crisis?
I am the master of creating positive energy and love in my own environment. I am the source of love in my life. It starts with me! This energy radiates from me! It gives me strength, courage, wisdom and grace!