Hey Merrick..well, it's about time for your W to start meeting some of your terms. I'm glad you are taking a harder stance w/her. Has the book helped you to see things in a different light?
I like the concept of the detailed expense report. I am at that point right now and working towards creating one myself. I hope I remember to hit all of the details so that I'm covered.
As for her family, why do they have anything to say to you anyway? If they care for her, why aren't they telling her to get out? I don't see it as positive if they are pushing to have you leave also.
I think you are approaching things in a fair outlook and if she really wants to end it, these alternatives are something for her to consider. After all, she has only one idea in her head and that is to have you OUT. I can really see how you have turned things around as far as approach and let her know it's not you or her but the kids. Seems to me that she is actually a little more perceptive to that concept.
Good luck and hope you hit the jackpot on one of these ideas sooner or later. Keep on hangin' Tootles.........
