My WAS - looking help and thanks in advance PART 4

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Hey y'all,

just wanted to update a little. I've been away from the forums for a while.

My last post was almost 2 weeks ago. Late that night, WW came home at 1 AM, stinking of booze, and asked me to go to Florida with her. I looked at her for a long moment and simply said OK. And the next evening we went. Just got back last night.

We had some discussions on vacation that were productive. I let her bring everything up, most of the communication we had was fun and light. She was a moody turd a lot too, but got nicer at the end of it. She point blank asked me a couple of times if I loved her, and I didn't answer.

I snooped her phone one night. She told OM that she was going with me to Florida (don't know if that was her breaking up or vice versa) and he blocked her on snapchat. I couldn't see exactly what she said, just her recap to her friend. She told me she realized she still had a lot of feelings and too many memories. I dunno how much I believe anything she says still though. And she has a ton of stuff to work through and I can tell she wants to snap her fingers instead of dig in for the hard work and long haul. She got (hopefully) all her crap out of his place the day a couple of weeks ago, I could tell when she got home bc she had a bunch of stuff.

So it's complicated, but what's new? Also her family disgusts me. Her sister told her she thought I was going to kill her while we were there. Ok you little female dog. Anyways they have a bunch of BS where that came from so why worry about it? Just another reason why I'm staying detached. I'm going to see if she stays at home every day for a while and then bring up her own counseling and marriage counseling as boundaries for me.

I missed 2 season openers for hunting so now it's back to work and time to take the puppy to the field and get after it.