Wow Merrick, Lots happening, I know where your at buddy. this is where the crap really starts hitting the fan. How has the lovely Mrs. Merrick been hanling her self with all the lawyer BS starting? Its a rough road but I think it may be a nessasary one for you Merrick. Life will be easier for you and her guilt will still work on her for what she is doing to her family. Just remember to leave her with the best taste in her mouth possible. Does that phrase sound bad in our sitch? Take care my freind, KOFTGF Beep, beep