bm, think about where you came from. I still remember her picking up your S, you trying to flag her down to talk, and her smiling wryly, waving and just kept going. Until you got to the point where she was calling, talking, hugging, wanting you to meet them for lunch, etc. DBing your butt off got you so much further ahead than you were.

And then when you stopped DBing, let OM get in your head, and you reverted on all those hard earned changes (just like sandi warns about), now you are facing your worst fear.

So what is the answer? Do what works! Stop doing what doesn't. What worked was DBing. What didn't work was not DBing.

So get back to it. Always be DBing. DB through mediation. DB through D. DB through coparenting. DB DB DB

M(53), W(54),D(19)
M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017
Ring and Piecing since March 2018