Oh Merrick, I think your response, although having some tone of anger in it, really sets the pace for your future. I know that you have well-thought out the process and details of a D and are adamant about maintaining balance for your kids. I think that is highly commendable as it is for all of the other guys that I've read on this BB.

I think given the circumstances that your W's lawyer can give you some time to review and contemplate her requests. I don't think that after 4 days you should be expected to give a decision. I like how you handled your response to the lawyer.

Good luck Merrick. Hope things don't weigh too heavy this long holiday weekend. Tootles....................


Karen