LW, you should know by now that I mean what I say and say what I mean. lol

What if you make your self scarce?

Based on your descriptions I think she is not really there just to clean or sort or whatever. What do you think?
It may be part of the reason, but there seems to be unfinished business but I don't know if I'm miss-reading this.

What if you left her there alone?

M 53 W 54, M since 98
D15, D19
8/2013 discovered EA, W maintained contact with OM
until 10/14
7/2/17 W said she wanted S, 7/25/17 moved out of MBR
12/17 W says moving out 5/18, W still in home.