Originally Posted by Did

I may let her talk a bit. Then say something like you have been so wishy washy I dont really want to talk about anything besides D4 unless we are both agreed that we are working on piecing our marriage together...


Well, I agree with Steve that you are caught in the same repeating pattern and it's getting you nowhere. First of all don't call her "wishy washy" or anything else, insulting her is pointless whether you want to recon or not. Second, don't start an R talk, it will go nowhere just like all the other R talks.

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Last night I was thinking of saying something like I want a woman who is kind, caring, supportive, trustworthy, that wants to have a family (more than 1 child we always wanted 2-3), deeply cares about marriage, that wants to be sexy and intimate for me as their man... if thats not you thats ok. If it is then we have something to talk about. And then just go dark for the most part.


See above correction. Stop all the pursuit and R talk! And "for the most part", no. Let's start doing proper DB'ing, shall we? All in.


Me: 60 w/ S18, D24, D27

M: 21 years; BD: 06-14-12; S: 09-10-12; D final: 03-17-14; XW:57