well W has been adamant about D since leaving so if there is an OM, then he likely pre-dates that. as I say seeing the change helps me with the detachment. let them go and get out of the way really is the best, heck only way to save yourself.
who knows if W has OM, it would make sense if so, but I could also believe it's simply a race back to singledom in my sitch. gut says OM, but time will tell I guess.
wlf...yes I mean once the cards are on the table best to move on forward and thank you as always, I'm doing pretty good today all things considered.
prayers and blessings to you in your ongoing sitch!