"Since its been three months and you've done nothing to try to become self-sufficient, after this month I am ending the voluntary support. You can go file a motion with the court to start spousal and child support. I am done playing games. All communication will be related to the care and visitation for and with D."
Take your manhood back. Make her take action. Stop sitting back, allowing her to cake eat, throwing you breadcrumbs to keep you attached and to keep the free money coming. Make her do the work to really get support. Let her see that you are now serious about moving on and that you aren't afraid of D.
She will react angry at first, but then she will do one of two things. Actually follow through and move towards D. Or realize that D is too much work and trouble and agree to try to R and work on the MR.
This is the last time I will advise you Did. I am not saying that for any other reason then that I've tried. At this point you'd probably prefer if I didn't continue to repeat myself. You know what I think. I will leave you with this question: everything you've been doing up until now, how has it worked? Isn't it time to try something different and to actually DB?
Good luck my friend, I will continue to pray for your sitch.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
