Merrick you amaze me with your strength and determination to keep smiling and have your sense of humor intact while your W just keeps throughing this barrage of crap at you. I realize now that your W is only trying, just like mine, to get a reaction out of you. Its like she is so indulged in getting you to fall of your wagon, so she can say, "see I told you he was no good". Everytime she does something nasty she expects you to snap and give it back, but instead you just keep on smiling and taking care of your family. Your so good and supportive for your family and have become such a huge pillar to keep it together for them, So she raises the bar to try and get you in another way and it just keeps getting worse as everytime she raises it more and more. Its like the Roadrunner and coyotte, the coyotte trys so hard to piss off the roadrunner and he just keeps going, unfazed by the coyotte's antics, The coyotte keeps getting bigger bombs and nastier ideas to beat the roadrunner, only to keep loosing his temper more and more as the RR gets away everytime. He never wins but is obsessed with making the Rr life miserable, while not realizing he is the fool, and the one that is most unhappy. Man these WAWs sure are funny sometimes. Keep on fighting the good fight. God Bless, Eddy