Husband Cheated, left, trying DB 2

[LoneWlf]

So wouldnt detachment basically be falling out of love with him? At this point id love that. This is pure torture.

Hi Kech, sorry that you are here- I've been following your sitch but wanted to chime in. In regards to falling out of love- I think you need to continue to love him but at a distance. He needs to go his journey alone for now. And this goes the same for you - take the time to find out what makes your heart and soul dance again. In another thread I read you have to treat the WAS/WWS as if they were in a coma. You still love them and want the best for them but they need to survive and persevere this situation that they are currently in. Just focus on rebuilding you to the better version Kech 2.0. Good luck on your journey!