DB / Detach- Will we ever piece it together

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Thank you all. Great advice. W wants to talk tonight on the phone tonight. I told her to let me know to confirm so I could be available. But I know it will depend on d4 sleeping and health she and W have been sick. She asked a few weeks ago to start talking on the phone - in her mind this is progress. In My mind she has been so wishy washy and back and forth im just about done unless she starts being kind caring and showing physical intimacy / actions of pursuit. She’s so far from the woman I actually want to Ben with and she’s doesn’t even know it.

Not sure how to handle the phone calls just listen and validate. Don’t talk about the qualities I’m miss

I’m still quite torn. Being around my family, young cousins and d4 yesterday. W never felt comfortable never really fit in always entitled and socially awkward. New woman I think would fit perfectly. But I want the family so it definitely weighs on me a bit. New woman I told her we need to take a step back for now that I wasn’t ready for anything serious