Its strange how something as simple as W changing her name affects us. My S told me just the other day that W was changing her name. I imagine its a form of guilt and a constant reminder of the lbh that eats at them every time they see there own name. My W has not filed yet but to me it would make sense just to wait until then. Sense being the key word. I still receive emails from my W daily as she is the manager at my DD nursery with my surname.I find myself wondering when she will change that one because then all the other parents will know. I do want my W to change her name now though because she did have an A with AM and is still with him and i feel its just another sign of disrespect to me. Right now my W does not deserve to be apart of my awesome family name. I guess it’s just another sign to us that we re not detached yet. We will get there .
Keep going. Keep being strong . Keep being the amazing Ballast.
Me=32 W=29 R=12 yrs M=7 yrs BD 02/18/18 Dd=3 S=6 Other man confirmed 06/10/18
