So what did you do differently to illicit this response? Also do you think the asking her what her issue was showed weakness or strength?
Remember, actions, not words. Don't ask her what her issue is, SHOW her you aren't willing to take her abuse.
I did Steve in the afternoon I told her she was way out of line. She reacted. I left the room. I think it was a big step for me not to get dragged into a fight because I was itching to give her both barrels trust me this used to be my normal reaction. I was happy with the outcome her apology was big for me it's not something I have seen from her over our marriage, it shows she's willing todo the right thing when she over reacts.
