wlf...reading your last update I could only think "wlf's wife is living the consequences of her action" I say that as my IC has constantly when talking about my W spoke of how she must live with the results of her choices.

Hey b, Thanks for the continued support! I think my priest told me that when the heart and the soul are misaligned it shows outwardly in stress and aging. I can truly say she is not very pretty nowadays!

Just journaling-
Had a good talk with S on the weekend. I first started about how his school year was going- he said good. Then we transitioned to how he thought it was going in the home? He said it is good . I asked him what changes have you seen in dad? He said he see me as more positive - less to anger- a lot more patient- more understanding and willing to make things better. I said I saw changes in him that he's more thankful- that he often times is more considerate and thoughtful and that I find he is easier t talk to and more receptive. We ended off saying that we will continue to keep positive and do better.

Anyways W texted me that she want to come over to clean Wednesday- should I inform S so he can make plans to be away so that it does not impact him or just let it be? Thanks so much for the input.


M51 w50
T-20Yrs M-16Yrs
S15- mad at W for not trying and giving up
1 Awesum dog
BD 10/31/17
separate rooms 02/08/18
wife moved out 05/17/18