Feeling lost, scared and wanting to fix this.

[Turbine]

I am not willing to quit. On her, us , me.

What if the only way to get her back is to quit on her and us? I agree, never quit on you! In fact, that is what DBing is about, concentrating on yourself!

But yes, you need to let her go to get her back. She will either come back or she won't, but nothing you do will cause her to do that. All you can do is give her the time and space to figure her own stuff out.

Backing off isn't quitting is it? Subtle is still DB... or did I misunderstand that?
I want to be who she wants to come back to. If she has decided that isn't going to happen... I don't want that future. Sound weak? I don't care. I don't imagine being without her and being happy... being... and going through the motions. So I have a goal to reach.

I have done hard before. I can again. So I will thank you in advance for the support.