I trust that you know her and your instincts are correct. Do what feels right to you. We are in no position to tell you what you should do. You know as well as any of us that have been at this for years that this journey is a very long, bumpy, and unpredictable one! There are always unknowns and yet things can change on a dime, but we cannot make them happen.This involves knowing when and what to let go of. Life will unfold as it will.
I believe that when we let go of asserting control, then we create freedom, and that is ultimately what love is.
Good luck with this other lady!
Blu
“Forgiveness liberates the soul. It removes fear. That is why it is such a powerful weapon.” – Nelson Mandela