Wish I still had my book gave it away years ago. Need to order another copy. You're right Got to give her space she needs and wants, and I'm doing just that. Furthermore, you are absolutely right that I cannot convince her to stay nor would I try. She has to make the choice for herself, whatever she thinks is right, whether I agree with it or not. I guess being a father I would want my daughters to feel that they have the ultimate say in their lives not someone else. To be a good example of that is to let their mother have her say in her life. It hurts but it is what is and like you said I can't convince her to stay but I can convince her to go, if I push, beg or act needy so I let her be. PMA and GAL :-)
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M46 W44 T20 M19 S21 D17 D11 D9 BD 1/2003 Reconciled 2/2004 Contemplating leaving again 4/2018 Deciding to stay 10/2018 (dodged another bullet...few)
