Marmar, you've admitted to using S time for W time as well. So 180 on that. Plan a couple of nights a week doing something just for you (hanging out with friends, etc), and then plan 2-3 nights where it just you and S. Give her the space she asked for.
If she ever brings up "you stopped doing things with me!" You can say, "look,you this is what you wanted. I never did. I wanted us to be a couple and work on our MR, but you were against that. When you are ready for us to try that I will be glad to oblige."
Taking time for yourself doesn't make you a bad parent. Plus it will give your S a chance to bond with the WAW one-on-one as well.
M(53), W(54),D(19) M-23, T-25 Bomb Drop - Dec.23, 2017 Ring and Piecing since March 2018
