Hey Steve, Actually yes I typically do make the women chase me. Even WAW herself pursued me when we first got together back in 1996. We were just acquaintances at that time but she came up to me one night and said "Can I ask you something? Do you find me attractive at all?! You never pay any attention to me!" Then from there the rest is history. I do this because I feel if a girl, who instinctively wants a man to be the pursuer, resorts to pursuing you then she must be serious. There's far less chance of her being a game player. Mary also pursued me. it's just a way for me to let the trash take itself out to the curb. Now as far as WAW goes, I still plan to seize every chance I can to get her to go on a date...but right now I'm seeing a lady informally too. I'm sure WAW will contact me again and I must say since money was a big factor in the demise of our marriage...it felt great for her to "need" me for a loan...in spite of this obsession she has with proving her ability to be independent to herself.
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ME: 43 W:44 M 13 years on 5-5-01 T 18 years BD 4/27/14 D papers served 5/5/14 (how appropriate a date) WAW moved out 5/12/14 Papers filed 6/27/14 Divorce granted 07/17/14 Our marriage ends 11/17/14
