this site has tons of great help from years ago hidden within it. I found this "nugget of wisdom" and thought it worth sharing again for myself and others:
LBS creed - I can handle anything thrown my way. I am responsible for my actions, thoughts and happiness. I will respect my WAS and let their problems be their problems. I am fun, confident, interesting and capable. I am attractive. I am interested in others well being. I choose to thrive regardless of my circumstance. I am a warrior.
Don't know about the whole "warrior" part, was reading some other old post where sandi mentioned us H's model ourselves like Rhett Butler. I'm going that way!
