The issues with formatting posts on this board are well and truly resolved. They are over and everybody else has gone back to writing posts using punctuation. Everybody except you.
You got terribly burned by the boards misbehaving. You learned how to get around the failures. You made it work.
Now you needn't do that any more. You can go back to the old, more productive, way of writing - but you haven't. Why is that?
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
Gordie, Gordie, Gordie -- your posts are heaven! Never change the style! I feel like I am in your mind when I read your posts, and that your mind is beautiful. I read your posts with great anticipation BECAUSE of your style of writing.
I teach writing, and I would give you an A for posts.
And I imagine that IRL you are just as wonderful, direct, kind and true.
Sometimes I gotta shake my head at folks here. Everyone is a director!
I believe I will see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord with courage. Be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord.
I often wish that the kids would be very clear about not wanting to talk to H. They share privately with me all that stuff but rarely show him. It makes it harder for him to see clearly what he is doing to them. So in a way you are lucky with that too.
I am so happy she said ILY again and said yes to the party. Awkward was good, exciting, full of anticipation when you first met and everything was new. Let it be that way now.
To me it does not seem like inching. It is a matter of months and so much keeps happening. To me it is a flood.
In honor of those who don't get your posting style, I will post a haiku about floods (real ones and yours) for you --
After the floods a new song for the river. - Michael McClintock
Gordie is the best.
I believe I will see the bounty of the Lord in the land of the living. Wait for the Lord with courage. Be stouthearted, and wait for the Lord.
I see now why certain things happened the way they did
And that it was not your fault
The party was fun
We both had a good time
There was no physical touch
But we did sit next to each other
Party went late into the night
And neither of us felt any urgency to leave
We were both comfortable with us being there together
Gordie 40s W 40s M20+ kids 2016 BD W fantasy affair w OM1 I do everything wrong 2017 I start to DB W says TLTL files for D PA w OM2 2018 I do LRT W drops filing and OM2 situation slowly improving
The issues with formatting posts on this board are well and truly resolved. They are over and everybody else has gone back to writing posts using punctuation. Everybody except you.
You got terribly burned by the boards misbehaving. You learned how to get around the failures. You made it work.
Now you needn't do that any more. You can go back to the old, more productive, way of writing - but you haven't. Why is that?
Is that how you are IRL too?
I like the way he writes, honestly. And this is coming from a private school, English scholarship winner who enjoys writing well, even in text messages. It's just different and to me it's cool.
Anyways Gordie, just wanted to check in on your sitch. Unfortunately I have no magic potion for you, and DB'ing is something you're far better at than I am. So here I am just saying hi and I'm glad to see things progressing, if even a little, for you.
H 34 W 29 BD 3/12/18 Divorce Busted Spring 19
It is not things that bother us, but the stories we tell ourselves about things.